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I also don’t have a lot of spare time and money to be going out so often.
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I enjoy putting on my trackies (track pants), dressing gown and slippers, and then snacking on chocolate or something equally delicious in front of the TV. My parents’ loveless (and at times quite spiteful) marriage also makes me question whether the whole ‘true love’ thing and ‘soul-mates’ really exist. I was raised to be very cynical about everyone I meet, and to always think about people’s ulterior motives. With these 3 factors combined I can be a socially awkward mess! Whether you believe in star signs or not, I am also the poster-child of a Virgo girl – organised, critical and I keep my emotions hidden (I can appear cold). Not all introverts are shy, but I just so happen to be both. I’m an introvert, I’m shy AND I’m a Virgo So here are the results of my self-analysis – my 20 reasons why I have never had a boyfriend:ġ. Only my list doesn’t just explain my current relationship status (single) but my seemingly permanent one (forever alone girl?). Being a psychology major, naturally I am a bit crazy, and of course I psychoanalyse myself! With Valentines Day coming up (the day of the year I most resent) I was inspired by a similar post ( Confessions of a Hopeless Introvert), and I decided to come up with my own list of reasons why I’m alone. Yes, as embarrassing as it is to admit, I am 22 years old I have never had a boyfriend.